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AllD
06-06-2009, 03:34 PM
All including everybody except your mother and Hometowngirl.

Is there is something in the water supply or am I just having bad luck lately?


:banging:

lamberts-lost-tooth
06-06-2009, 03:43 PM
Always have been...always will be.

BUT:

1) They are worth it!!!:thumbsup:
2) We drive them as crazy as the drive us!!! :crazy01:
3) They dont all look like Tim Lumbers wife. :horror:

HometownGal
06-06-2009, 04:39 PM
All including everybody except your mother and Hometowngirl.

Is there is something in the water supply or am I just having bad luck lately?


:banging:

You know how to schmooze me, don't ya? :wink02::hug:

I dunno - maybe I'm just different, but today's women seem so selfish, materialistic, opportunistic and inconsiderate to me. Wine me, dine me, refine me, buy me everything I want no matter how much it costs, satisfy ME. . . . ME, ME, ME, ME and ME some more. :shake01: I wasn't raised that way and I didn't raise my daughter that way. Men aren't perfect either, and I know I'll probably catch hell from my fellow women folk here, but today's gentleman is caught between a rock and a hard place (I guess that could be literally speaking, too. :chuckle::wink02:). Hell - I'm content as a clam going for a long drive or grabbing a bite to eat at the local greasy spoon and taking in a sporting event whether it be professional or amateur or sitting down to play a good game of chess. I'm insistent on treating every other date which most guys find offensive - doesn't make you less macho - it's really just about being fair and not taking advantage of your date or taking them for granted. This isn't the 1950's!!

My daughter is now married, but as I told both of them many times and tend to follow this rule myself - don't go looking for "Miss/Mr. Right" - when the time is right, you'll find each other. Don't look for them in a bar - bar flies are a dime a dozen and usually need disinfected. Don't look for them on the internet - people can be whoever they choose to be behind a computer screen (with me - what you see is what you get as several people around here can attest to - LOL!). Seek out QUALITY women. They might not look like SI swimsuit models but may have insatiable inner beauty which is what really matters. Don't give up hon - they're out there!! :drink:

I see no reason to keep this in the BF, so I'm moving it to the Locker Room (for now).

lamberts-lost-tooth
06-06-2009, 04:53 PM
How about a compromise?


There are good ones (that can be as crazy as owl-shit)....and bad ones (that are ALWAYS as crazy as owl-shit). :noidea:

SteelCityMan786
06-06-2009, 05:50 PM
Some of today's teenage girls do like to take advantage of today's teenage guys. In some cases I'm wondering where in the heck do they get their dating tips(MTV?). Unfortunately we live in a "What have you done for me lately?" type of society. I usually don't waste my time with girls that are like that. If they're going to be snobbish to me, I take that as my signal that I should probably move on and find someone else. I hold myself to a high standard of character and look for women who do the same. They don't have to be the go out every night kind of girl. They can be the one who just like to spend a quiet evening at home to.

They might be crazy to some degree, but at the same time as LLT said, they can be worth it in the end.

hindes204
06-06-2009, 06:21 PM
women are somewhat sane......until you marry them......and THEN they turn into the most irrational, insane, never wrong, princesses you will ever meet..............but i still lover her

GBMelBlount
06-07-2009, 06:10 AM
women are somewhat sane......until you marry them......and THEN they turn into the most irrational, insane, never wrong, princesses you will ever meet..............but i still lover her

LOL!

My wife and I just "celebrated" our 12th anniversary yesterday and I am hoping for MANY more! I was lucky enough to get her when she was still young and sweet and she still is! After 12 years, despite our problems, I realize now, more than ever, that my wife is an absolute gem and a definite keeper.....as long as I can keep her on a budget! :chuckle:

Galax Steeler
06-07-2009, 06:15 AM
I have to split they are good ones and bad ones.

silver & black
06-07-2009, 08:20 AM
I've been married for 23 years. Things change... some for the better, some not so much. Relationships are constantly evolving if you are with someone for any length of time. You learn to roll with it, or you don't.

I have a 16 year old daughter that is now dating...... I may vote for the crazy part on this one!...LOL.

Vincent
06-07-2009, 08:28 AM
I think the problem with both sides is vanity, and as the disease progresses, narcissism. I have noted that this condition has become pandemic over the last 40 or so years. Not to dismiss vanity entirely, it is IMHO a component of the mating process - men seek beauty and women tend to seek virility. And I believe they do viscerally in order to bring forth strong attractive children. There, that should start a @#$%storm. :chuckle:

I like pretty wimmins just like the next guy. But I learned something early in life - don't flatter vanity. Vanity that seeks an audience will never be satisfied. And its interesting, that kind of vanity is easy to manipulate - ignoring it is a form of "hard to get".

I had good results with pretty girls with subdued outward vanity. They knew they were hot but were annoyed with the idiots that guffawed all over them. So, they toned it way down. And when you get into a relationship with one of those, because it isn't about vanity, it's really good.

That worked 35 years ago. It looks brutal out there today. As I tell my bride of 34 years, I would hate to be young in this environment. But I gotta believe there are still some Kathy Irelands in (real) jeans and a flannel shirt "oud-dare".

And to address the original question - they're no crazier than men.

Hammer67
06-07-2009, 09:49 AM
How about a compromise?


There are good ones (that can be as crazy as owl-shit)....and bad ones (that are ALWAYS as crazy as owl-shit). :noidea:


Amen to this...they are all freaking nuts. You just have to find one you can tolerate and work with...thank god I did, because some of the crap some of my friends are going through right now makes me wonder about society. Their women are CRAZY!!!:screwy:

xfl2001fan
06-07-2009, 09:54 AM
They all are...but they have to be in order to put up with us.

My wife is a complete nut...and from time to time, I have to tell her, "Hormones, calm down." Fortunately, she has enough control over herself (and is self aware) that she knows she's crossed a line. I always know when I'm crossing a line...but I rarely care.

It's all about finding one nutcase (her) who is compatible with another nutcase (him.)

JEFF4i
06-07-2009, 10:15 AM
Y'know what?

YES THEY ARE!

Why? Imagine pushing an 8 pound basketball outta your bum, and you'll understand how nature has engineered them to be a bit different.

My wife, I love her to death and am the luckiest guy in the world, but she's still a little looney.

SteelersMongol
06-07-2009, 10:29 AM
...There are good ones (that can be as crazy as owl-shit)....and bad ones (that are ALWAYS as crazy as owl-shit). :noidea:

So true. :thumbsup:

LOL!

My wife and I just "celebrated" our 12th anniversary yesterday and I am hoping for MANY more! I was lucky enough to get her when she was still young and sweet and she still is! After 12 years, despite our problems, I realize now, more than ever, that my wife is an absolute gem and a definite keeper.....as long as I can keep her on a budget! :chuckle:

My wife & I had just passed our 10th anniversary couple days ago. 10 years & 3 kids. :chuckle: Lucky 2 have her. She was born 10 months later than I was, & as I'd like 2 say 2 her, God was watching me for 10 months, & said "This 1 needs a good woman or he's doomed" & created her. :wink02: :chuckle:

X-Terminator
06-08-2009, 06:23 AM
Well, I'm single and not dating for a reason. It's a hell of a lot less stressful and aggravating. I'm a simple guy with simple likes and dislikes. I'm also an old-school romantic. Is it too much to ask to find a woman today who is the same way? Seems most of them are either too into themselves, too materialistic, or are just plain nuts...or all of the above, as my most recent GF was. Ugh, no thanks - I've learned my lesson but good. I'd rather stay single.

GBMelBlount
06-08-2009, 08:10 AM
Well, I'm single and not dating for a reason. .

idk XT. I couldn’t imagine going through life single. I dated some really nice girls before I met my wife, who incidentally, is a very nice girl. I had a few simple rules that I followed that seemed to work. I generally stayed away from girls that smoked, had tattoo’s, potty mouths or were crude. Most every girl I dated seriously had strong family ties and was sensible, proper, attractive and kind, and generally had a positive attitude about things.

I am SURE there are A LOT of nice women out there. You’re a great guy XT and I’m sure any woman would be lucky to have you. It’s just a matter of patience and finding the right one for you, my friend. :thumbsup:

revefsreleets
06-08-2009, 08:28 AM
My friend Bob only dates women for 90 days then dumps them. According to him, after 90 days "The cuckoo comes out of the clock".

Those are his words, not mine...but I'm not necessarily disagreeing with him...

klick81
06-08-2009, 09:42 AM
I think all of us (yes, included men) have a little bit of insanity in us. It's just different people have different grades and variations of the same issues!

lamberts-lost-tooth
06-08-2009, 09:48 AM
idk XT. I couldn’t imagine going through life single. I dated some really nice girls before I met my wife, who incidentally, is a very nice girl. I had a few simple rules that I followed that seemed to work. I generally stayed away from girls that smoked, had tattoo’s, potty mouths or were crude. Most every girl I dated seriously had strong family ties and was sensible, proper, attractive and kind, and generally had a positive attitude about things.

I am SURE there are A LOT of nice women out there. You’re a great guy XT and I’m sure any woman would be lucky to have you. It’s just a matter of patience and finding the right one for you, my friend. :thumbsup:

Dont look for the perfect girl though...because she is married to me.

(I soooo just got an "awwwww" from the girls in the forum:chuckle:)

SteelersMongol
06-08-2009, 11:21 AM
Well, I'm single and not dating for a reason. It's a hell of a lot less stressful and aggravating. I'm a simple guy with simple likes and dislikes. I'm also an old-school romantic. Is it too much to ask to find a woman today who is the same way? Seems most of them are either too into themselves, too materialistic, or are just plain nuts...or all of the above, as my most recent GF was. Ugh, no thanks - I've learned my lesson but good. I'd rather stay single.

Get yourself a girl from another country, then? :wink02:

Dont look for the perfect girl though...because she is married to me.

(I soooo just got an "awwwww" from the girls in the forum:chuckle:)

:laughing:

trauben
06-09-2009, 08:20 AM
All including everybody except your mother and Hometowngirl.

Is there is something in the water supply or am I just having bad luck lately?


:banging:

Well, then you're calling me crazy. :flipoff:

Seriously though? It's not a gender thing, it's a personality thing.

Do you really think there aren't guys out there their equals?

Trust me! There are!!!!!!!

It's all about personalities, the way people were raised, expectations from past hurts, etc.

Nope, not gender..........more about the soul within. :coffee:

trauben
06-09-2009, 08:25 AM
I wasn't raised that way and I didn't raise my daughter that way.
Precisely my point. My daughter isn't being raised this way either. :thumbsup:

HometownGal
06-09-2009, 08:46 AM
Do you really think there aren't guys out there their equals?

Trust me! There are!!!!!!!



AMEN sister! :drink:

Though I've made a few errors in judgment along the way when dating/marrying, I find the "true gentleman" most attractive. I don't have many requirements, but he has to be someone who isn't a "player" who relishes the head and heart games. He must have more inner beauty than outer (though that is always a plus) who loves and appreciates me for ME, not who he wants or expects me to be. None of this "do as I say, not as I do" BS, either. My only steadfast requirement is that he HAS to be a Steelers and Pens diehard! :tt02::thumbsup:

MACH1
06-09-2009, 09:19 AM
Like the old joke say's,
Why do you call it PMS, because madcow was already taken.

HometownGal
06-09-2009, 09:53 AM
Like the old joke say's,
Why do you call it PMS, because madcow was already taken.

Well - the two biggest curses that a woman faces are named (appropriately) after you guys. . . .

MENopause
MENstruation

:flap::wink02::laughing:

steelax04
06-09-2009, 09:54 AM
Just add "...in bed" to each of the poll answers and it makes this much more interesting. :wink02:

trauben
06-09-2009, 10:04 AM
Though I've made a few errors in judgment along the way when dating/marrying, I find the "true gentleman" most attractive.
ABSOLUTELY! Ditto with me, too!!!!!!!! :thmbup:
I don't have many requirements, but he has to be someone who isn't a "player" who relishes the head and heart games. He must have more inner beauty than outer (though that is always a plus) who loves and appreciates me for ME, not who he wants or expects me to be. None of this "do as I say, not as I do" BS, either. My only steadfast requirement is that he HAS to be a Steelers and Pens diehard! :tt02::thumbsup:
Man, we're eye-to-eye on this one! This is precisely what I've been saying for years.

But finding one ........sigh......... therein lies the difficulty. :pde:

lamberts-lost-tooth
06-09-2009, 10:10 AM
Just add "...in bed" to each of the poll answers and it makes this much more interesting. :wink02:

Does that means you voted for option #4?

No, its just your imagination...in bed.
:chuckle:

El-Gonzo Jackson
06-09-2009, 11:38 AM
Like the old joke say's,
Why do you call it PMS, because madcow was already taken.

I once heard that Grizzly bears are attracted to women more at that time of the month, so they should be careful when camping.

Then I thought..........140lb woman on PMS vs. a Grizzly Bear............THAT'S A FAIR FIGHT!!! :thumbsup:

GBMelBlount
06-09-2009, 12:00 PM
I once heard that Grizzly bears are attracted to women more at that time of the month

Really? I didn't realize bears menstruated monthly. That's good to know. :chuckle:

lamberts-lost-tooth
06-09-2009, 01:01 PM
I once heard that Grizzly bears are attracted to women more at that time of the month, so they should be careful when camping.

Then I thought..........140lb woman on PMS vs. a Grizzly Bear............THAT'S A FAIR FIGHT!!! :thumbsup:

poor bear

:shake01:

steelreserve
06-10-2009, 05:22 AM
Yes, of course they're crazy. Most of them have some built-in instinct that causes them not to like anything fun, plus they mouth off and they're always getting pregnant. The rare ones who aren't like that are usually lesbians. And if they're not like that AND they're not lesbians, they've been with the same guy for 5 or 6 years, and he's always a complete loser and a jerk.

I mean, it literally makes me think, "come on -- where were YOU when they were passing out the brains?" Sheesh.

GBMelBlount
06-10-2009, 06:29 AM
ABSOLUTELY! Ditto with me, too!!!!!!!! :thmbup:

Man, we're eye-to-eye on this one! This is precisely what I've been saying for years.

But finding one ........sigh......... therein lies the difficulty. :pde:

Sorry Trauben, but I gotta respectfully disagree you on this one, my friend. It shouldn't be difficult for someone with your qualities and character to find a good man. I'm sure there are plenty of them out there. :thumbsup:

trauben
06-10-2009, 07:05 AM
Sorry Trauben, but I gotta respectfully disagree you on this one, my friend. It shouldn't be difficult for someone with your qualities and character to find a good man. I'm sure there are plenty of them out there. :thumbsup:
Yep ......... they're already married! :flap:

GBMelBlount
06-10-2009, 07:27 AM
Yep ......... they're already married! :flap:

LOL. :chuckle:

My point is simply this Trauben. Whether you believe the right guy is out there, or not, either way, you're probably right......