We do want something in return. We want you to take us out and spend time with us.
As long as my b/f takes me out or is my guest at a Steelers, Pirates or Pens game, sports bar or out to play a game of tennis or racquetball, I'm content as a clam. I love my sports! On the other hand, I love my Steelers football even more and unless he comes over to watch the Steelers, the rest of the Sunday games or MNF with me, he knows not to expect idle chit-chat, dinner on the table, poontang or even a cup of java on those 2 days. Whatever he wants to do the other 5 days is a-okay with me - Sunday and Monday nights are MINE!