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Old 05-28-2009, 09:37 AM   #1
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Question Question for the men

You're married with kids and in your 40s.

Why would you seek out an old girlfriend from high school to get in contact with again when you never kept in contact outside of high school before?

This girlfriend isn't on any of the social networking sites, phone numbers are not listed, and she is not so easily found.

This is also a girlfriend that you once said you wanted to marry, but she ended it with you amicably because she was a couple years older and graduating high school and moving away.

Why would a guy make a bold move by sending an email to her sister to seek her out? Why would you do that? Just to meet up? Having problems in a marriage and wanting to know "what if?"

I need to pick your brains.
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Old 05-28-2009, 09:40 AM   #2
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I can't tell you, When I'm done with my women, I'm done, I don't want to be friends and I don't care what they do. Curiosity maybe?
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Old 05-28-2009, 09:48 AM   #3
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Wish I could help, but I'm scratching my head too.
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Old 05-28-2009, 09:53 AM   #4
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I seriously doubt she's as hot as she was in high school.

I hear they have nice girls in Bangkok.
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Old 05-28-2009, 09:58 AM   #5
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Sounds like mid-life crisis to me. I think we are all pretty much in agreement on what it likely is...outside of that, not sure.
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Old 05-28-2009, 10:07 AM   #6
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Whatever it is, it's a Pandora's box that should stay closed.
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lookin to cheat of course guys dont just seek out girls to meet up with and be friends....you should be worried.....
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He needs to know how you're feeling now and not when it's too late.

Did he tell you he contacted her? Or is this information you found by snooping?

If it's snooping then you really have yourself in a pickle...
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Psst, hey meester - wanna date my seester?
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Wow Trauben, that's interesting.

I am married, in my 40’s and have a child

I dated two very sweet, attractive cheerleaders / homecoming queen in high school and into my first year of college and I married the same type of girl (although she has her moments! ). I had very good relationships with both girls. Anyway, I did contact both of them in my late 20’s when I was still single. However, I was between relationships and was very curious to see where they were at in their lives…..

Now, I am in my 40’s and married 12 years to a woman I love and deeply care about and have a beautiful daughter.

As to his motives, it could be a number of different things but she will not know for sure unless she talks to him imo.
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